Mentoring · Coaching · Family Support

You're doing everything you can.
But it still feels like not enough.

You know your child better than anyone. You can see they're struggling — at school, at home, in the gaps between. Maybe there's a diagnosis, maybe you're still waiting for one.

Mentor to your child. Coach for you.
Navigator through the system.

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I can help if...
Your child has ADHD, autism, or is awaiting assessment
Your family is navigating a difficult transition
You are an adoptive parent with attachment challenges
EHCPs and council processes feel overwhelming
You simply don't know where to start — and need someone who does
Thirty years of experience.
Including the most important one.

I've spent over thirty years working with children and families — as a learning mentor, a SEND specialist, and as a parent who has navigated the system myself. I know this world from both sides of the table.

ADHD & Autism support
Transitions at every stage
Adoption & attachment
EHCP navigation
Parent coaching
One-to-one child mentoring
Family sessions
Online across the UK
How we work together
Four ways I can support your family

Every family is different. We start with a free conversation, then agree a plan that fits your situation — not a fixed programme.

01

For Your Child

One-to-one Mentoring

Building confidence, self-regulation and trust — at your child's pace. Strengths first, always.

From £65 per session · 50 min
02

For You

Parent Coaching

Space to think, to be heard, and to build strategies that actually work for your family.

From £70 per session · 50 min
03

For Your Family

Family Sessions

Parent and child together — building connection and new ways through the patterns that develop under pressure.

From £90 per session · 75–90 min
04

Navigating the System

EHCP & Advocacy Support

Guidance through EHCPs, Local Authority processes and school meetings — so you understand the system and feel equipped to navigate it. I listen, help you think things through, and offer support every step of the way.

From £70/hr · tailored to your needs
The first step is a conversation

No commitment. No jargon. No pressure.

A free 20-minute online meeting to talk about where you are and whether I might be able to help.

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Services
How I work with you

Before anything else, we start with a conversation — a free 20-minute online meeting where you can tell me what's going on and I can tell you honestly whether and how I can help. From there, we agree a plan that fits your family.

One-to-One Mentoring for Children

For Your Child · Mentor

These sessions are for children and young people who are finding things hard — at school, at home, or in the transitions between one stage of life and the next. I work with children who have ADHD, autism, or other additional needs, as well as those waiting for an assessment and struggling in the meantime.

Sessions are built around your child's strengths — not their deficits. We might work on confidence, emotional regulation, social skills, managing transitions, or simply having a trusted adult who really listens.

  • ADHD & autism
  • Learning difficulties
  • Adoption & attachment
  • School transitions (primary → secondary → college)
  • Self-esteem & confidence
£65 per session 50 min · Block of 6: 10% discount

Parent Coaching

For You · Coach

Being the parent of a child with additional needs is one of the hardest things there is. You are advocating, problem-solving, communicating, and worrying — often all at once, often without enough support.

Parent coaching gives you dedicated time and space to think, to be heard, and to build strategies that actually work. You don't need a clear agenda — sometimes the most useful thing is simply having someone who understands.

  • Understanding your child's diagnosis
  • Improving communication at home
  • Preparing for school meetings
  • Managing your own stress
  • Working out what to do next
£70 per session 50 min · Block of 6: 10% discount

Family Sessions

For Your Family · Coach

Sometimes the most useful work happens when parent and child are in the room together. Family sessions focus on building connection, improving communication, and finding new ways through patterns that develop when life is consistently hard.

Particularly helpful during transitions, or when the relationship between parent and child has become strained under the weight of everything.

£90 per session 75–90 min · In person or online

Navigating the System

EHCP & Family Guidance · Navigator

The system surrounding children with additional needs — EHCPs, Local Authority processes, school meetings — can feel impossibly complex and exhausting to face alone. I don't do this for you, but I help you understand it, think it through, and feel more confident moving forward.

This is a space to talk through your concerns, make sense of what you're being told, prepare for important meetings, and find your footing in a process that often feels overwhelming.

  • Understanding the EHCP process — from initial application to annual reviews
  • Talking through options and what they mean for your child
  • Preparing for meetings with schools and Local Authorities
  • Making sense of reports, assessments and official communications
  • Emotional support through what can be a long and draining process
  • Understanding your rights under the SEND Code of Practice

This is informal guidance and support — not legal advice, and not a case management service — from someone who has been through this process both professionally and personally.

£70 per hour Tailored to your needs
Not sure where to start?

Most families begin with a free online meeting.

20 minutes, no commitment, no jargon. Just a chance to talk — face to face, online.

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Christine, founder of Alongside
About Christine
I've always been drawn to children who are finding things hard.

Not because I want to fix them — but because I've learned that underneath every child who is struggling, there is almost always a strength waiting to be found.

BA Education Studies 30+ years experience ADHD & Autism specialist Makaton trained German & English Adoption & attachment SEND navigation Webster Stratton certified

My journey into this work began simply: I love children. I always have. Over thirty years, that love has taken me from nurseries in London to primary schools, from special needs classrooms to family support programmes — always gravitating towards smaller groups, one-to-one work, the quiet conversations where real change happens.

Early in my career, during a placement in a children's home in Germany, I worked with a young boy whose development had been set back by early childhood trauma. Rather than focusing on what he couldn't do, I looked for what he could. He loved to draw. We started there. Gradually, his confidence grew, his anxiety settled, and he began to catch up — not because anyone pushed him, but because someone had finally seen him.

That experience shaped everything that followed.

I understand this world from two sides.

As a professional, I spent years as a Learning Mentor in London schools, supporting children with ADHD, autism, and complex emotional needs. I worked alongside SENCOs, attended multi-agency meetings, and sat with parents who didn't know where to turn.

And then, as a parent, I found myself on the other side of that table.

My son has ADHD and autism. Navigating the system — the appointments, the assessments, the letters, the meetings, the moments of being told to wait — taught me things no training course ever could. I know what it feels like to fight for your child. I know how exhausting and lonely it can be. And I know that with the right support alongside you, things can change.

Watching my son grow, with the help of consistent collaboration between family, teachers, therapists and support groups, into the young man he is today — that is my greatest proof that this work matters.

What I offer

I work as a mentor with children, a coach with parents, and a navigator through the complex systems that surround families with additional needs. Whether your child has a diagnosis or you're still searching for answers — I am here to walk alongside you.

I am bilingual in English and German, trained in Makaton sign language, and have specific experience with adoption, attachment, and all major transitions from early years through to further education.

My approach is always the same: I look for the strengths first. I listen before I speak. And I stay alongside you for as long as you need.

Training, Education & Qualifications

Academic Qualifications

  • BA (Hons) Education Studies — University of Greenwich
  • Certificate in Supporting Young People (Masters level, 20 credits) — Canterbury Christ Church University
  • Diploma in Nursery Nursing (Fachschule für Sozialpädagogik, Hamburg)
  • Diploma in Childcare (Berufsfachschule für Kinderpflege, Hamburg)

Professional Training

  • Webster Stratton Incredible Years Parenting Programme — Coram, London
  • National Induction Training for Learning Mentors
  • Attachment Theory Parts 1 & 2 — Isaac Newton Professional Centre
  • Mentor Training — Westminster Council
  • Transition Training KS2 to KS3
  • Wave 3 Numeracy Training
  • Portage Early Years Conference

Specialist Skills

  • Makaton Sign Language
  • Bilingual — English and German (native)
  • SEND navigation and EHCP processes
  • Adoption and attachment (Coram trained)
  • Safeguarding and child protection

Experience

  • 30+ years working with children and families
  • Learning Mentor in London primary schools
  • Support staff for children with autism
  • Nursery and early years specialist
  • Multi-agency and SENCO collaboration
  • Personal experience navigating the SEND system as a parent
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Get in touch
Let's talk

The first step doesn't have to be a big one. If you're not sure whether Alongside is right for your family, that's completely fine — just get in touch.

Free 20-Minute Online Meeting

The easiest place to start. We'll meet online — face to face via video — to talk about what's going on for your family and whether I might be able to help. No pressure, no commitment. If I'm not the right fit, I'll do my best to point you in the right direction.

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Choose a time that suits you — mornings, evenings and weekends available

Choose your time

Where to find me

Oxford — home base, in-person sessions available
London Paddington — available one to two days per week
Online — available across the UK via Zoom

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